Once upon a time. Three friends came together to me and asked, how to trust someone. People always get hurt by someone whom they trust.
So I sent them all to the river nearby one by one and asked them to get information about the river.
First guy came along with long stick wet in water, and said “This much depth and water is flowing in this direction”.
Second guy immersed his one leg in water and another at river’s bank. “This much depth, this direction” he said. “And water is cold.” he added.
Third guy jump in the river. He never came back and gat drown with high tides.
Similar things happen with trust,
As first guy, who didn’t trust you much, he never get involved much with you, so he never know much about you.
Second guy get involved with you. He trust you but partially, he only knows whatever he need to know about you and as well as he keep some secrets along with him, which he never will tell you.
Third guy trust blindly and as we all know what happened to him.
So In case of trust, be like the second guy. Its better. So share your secrets according to situations and conditions.
Disclose things to such an extent that you will be safe always. Trusting someone requires a lot of time, but do this wisely.
‘This is fictional story to tell you about how to trust somebody.’